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Is It Ever Okay to Hit on Someone at the Gym?
Because “Nice squat form” can sound pretty close to “Yep, I’ve been staring at your ass.”
By Jenna Ryu
Your Guide to the Best Sex Toys Out There, According to Experts
Including beginner-friendly rabbits, remote-controlled vibes, and more.
By Malia Griggs, Sara Coughlin, and Gabrielle Kassel
7 Relationship Green Flags We Can Learn From Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco
Not sold on this headline-making couple? This list might just win you over.
By Jenna Ryu
What Does It Really Mean to Be ‘Emotionally Unavailable’?
Dating someone who won’t let you in is frustrating…but it’s not always a lost cause.
By Jenna Ryu
4 Signs of Love Bombing in Friendships You Should Never Ignore
Moving too fast isn’t just a romantic red flag.
By Jenna Ryu
Age-Gap Relationships Get a Bad Rap—But These 5 Tricks Make Them Work
“Babygirl” and “The White Lotus” are flipping the script…and real-life couples are too.
By Jenna Ryu
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Great Lubes for Menopause, From Someone Who’s Tried More Than 100
Because dryness can be a real pain.
By Gabrielle Kassel and Sarah Felbin
16 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.
By Jessica Kasparian and Gabrielle Kassel
Can We Please Stop Giving Flirting Hacks Like ‘Sticky Eyes’ Too Much Credit?
There’s no magic formula to dating—no matter how many TikToks promise otherwise.
By Jenna Ryu
Yes, Taking a Break Can Make a Relationship Stronger—But Only Sometimes
Exploring what it's like to not be together (without fully splitting up) can have surprising benefits.
By Jenna Ryu
5 Important Questions to Ask Yourself Before Getting Back With Your Ex
Let’s make sure your Relationship 2.0 is an upgrade, not a rerun.
By Jenna Ryu
How Much Should Politics Really Matter in Relationships?
Ben and Sara seem to be hitting it off on this season of ‘Love Is Blind’—that is, until one reveals they didn’t vote in the last election.
By Jenna Ryu
‘Love Is Blind’ Has Us Wondering, Is It Shallow to Care About Height in a Relationship?
We asked experts when a “preference” turns into a problem.
By Jenna Ryu
How to Sext With Confidence and Have a Hotter Relationship Because of It
Expert tips for coming up with ideas and keeping the convo rolling.
By Erica Sloan
Why, After 6 Years of Celebrating, My Partner and I Are Boycotting Valentine’s Day
The most romantic way to celebrate? Doing absolutely nothing—let me convince you why.
By Jenna Ryu
6 People Who Found Love Without Dating Apps Share How They Did It
A little inspiration for anyone who is so sick of swiping.
By Julia Ries Wexler
50 Non-Awkward Questions for a First Date That’ll Actually Spark a Connection
So you can skip surface-level small talk about the weather or your job—and cut to the good stuff instead.
By Jenna Ryu
We Asked 10 Experts: Which Wand Vibrators Are Truly Worth the Hype?
Their answers may surprise you.
By Gabrielle Kassel
5 Signs You’ve Outgrown Your Therapist
Yep, it’s normal to graduate from your sessions together—here’s how to tell when you’re ready.
By Jenna Ryu
Is Breaking Up Over Text Ever Okay?
Plus, what to keep in mind before you hit send.
By Julia Ries Wexler