We Care About Your Privacy

We, and ourpartners use cookies and similar methods to recognize visitors and remember their preferences. We may also use these technologies to gauge the effectiveness of advertising campaigns, target advertisements, and analyze website traffic. Some of these technologies are essential for ensuring the proper functioning of the service or website and cannot be disabled, while others are optional but serve to enhance the user experience in various ways. We, in collaboration with our partners, store and/or access information on a user's device, including but not limited to IP addresses, unique identifiers, and browsing data stored in cookies, in order to process personal data. You have the option to manage your preferences by selecting the 'Manage Preferences' option located in the page's footer. To review or object to instances where our partners assert a legitimate interest in utilizing your data, please visit our vendors page.

We and our partners process data for the following purposes

  • Targeting Cookies
  • Social Media Cookies
  • Performance Cookies
  • Audience Measurement
  • Functional Cookies
  • Essential
  • Store and/or access information on a device
  • Use limited data to select advertising
  • Create profiles for personalised advertising
  • Use profiles to select personalised advertising
  • Create profiles to personalise content
  • Use profiles to select personalised content
  • Measure advertising performance
  • Measure content performance
  • Understand audiences through statistics or combinations of data from different sources
  • Develop and improve services
  • Use limited data to select content
  • Use precise geolocation data
  • Actively scan device characteristics for identification
Skip to main content
SelfLaunches August 11 at 9:00 a.m. EST
02
Days
:
20
Hours
:
16
Minutes
:
47
Seconds

friendship

My Friend Always Gets Free Stuff by Complaining to Managers&-and It Gives Me the ‘Ick’
Asking for a Friend

My Friend Always Gets Free Stuff by Complaining to Managers—and It Gives Me the ‘Ick’

I feel bad for the servers…and even worse about our relationship.
The ‘Contrarian Friend’ Is Real&-and They’re Driving Everyone Crazy
Life

The ‘Contrarian Friend’ Is Real—and They’re Driving Everyone Crazy

When disagreeing with you becomes someone’s entire personality.
5 Subtle Signs It’s Time to Break Up With a Friend, According to Experts
Life

5 Subtle Signs It’s Time to Break Up With a Friend, According to Experts

Here’s how to know when a “bestie” feels more like a burden than a blessing.
My Best Friend Keeps Ditching Me for Guys. Should I Call Her Out?
Asking for a Friend

My Best Friend Keeps Ditching Me for Guys. Should I Call Her Out?

When she’s single, I’m her person. When she’s not? It’s like I don’t exist.
My Friend Cut Me Off. How Can I Get Them to Forgive Me?
Asking for a Friend

My Friend Cut Me Off. How Can I Get Them to Forgive Me?

I ruined a great friendship over jealousy…and I’ve regretted it ever since.
5 Signs You’re in a Codependent Friendship, According to Experts
Life

5 Signs You’re in a Codependent Friendship, According to Experts

Because not all “closeness” is healthy.
How to Survive a Friends’ Trip&-and Actually Stay Friends
Travel

How to Survive a Friends’ Trip—and Actually Stay Friends

So you don’t suffer the same fate as that one “White Lotus” trio.
3 Things to Do If a Friend Is Always Late and You Just Can’t Take It Anymore
Life

3 Things to Do If a Friend Is Always Late and You Just Can’t Take It Anymore

Blowing up at them won’t help either of you.
‘Friendship First’ Is Our September SELF Well-Read Book Club Pick
Life

‘Friendship First’ Is Our September SELF Well-Read Book Club Pick

Author Gyan Yankovich writes that the bonds between besties deserve more credit.
The Core ‘Friend Group’ Is a Myth&-and It’s Making Us Feel Bad About Ourselves
Clan fiction

The Core ‘Friend Group’ Is a Myth—and It’s Making Us Feel Bad About Ourselves

A tight crew that does everything together isn’t that common, and it’s unrealistic for many of us.
Here’s How to Truly Earn Someone’s Forgiveness After You’ve Hurt Them
Redeeming qualities

Here’s How to Truly Earn Someone’s Forgiveness After You’ve Hurt Them

A heartfelt apology is a great start, but taking these steps can show you’re committed to making things right.
We Asked 9 People What Finally Helped Them Get Over a Friend Breakup
Life

We Asked 9 People What Finally Helped Them Get Over a Friend Breakup

“I leaned into making it a whole thing—wallowing, watching movies about BFFs to hurt my own feelings, that kind of stuff.”
3 Things to Do When You Love Your Friend But Kinda Hate Their Partner
Life

3 Things to Do When You Love Your Friend But Kinda Hate Their Partner

You might need a little mantra to get you through the most annoying moments.
How to Deal With Being the Only Single Person in Your Friend Group
Life

How to Deal With Being the Only Single Person in Your Friend Group

If third-wheeling is bumming you out, read this.
5 Signs That You’re in a One-Sided Friendship
Life

5 Signs That You’re in a One-Sided Friendship

Watch out for someone who’s “too busy” for you but somehow fits in lots of hangs with everyone else.
Why Yapping With Your Friends Is So Good For Your Mental Health
The gifts of gab

Why Yapping With Your Friends Is So Good For Your Mental Health

You don’t have to go deep to feel connected.
How to Deal With a Friend Who Complains Constantly
Life

How to Deal With a Friend Who Complains Constantly

You’re not a bad person for wanting a break from the negativity.
What to Do If Your People-Focused Job Completely Drains Your Social Battery
Life

What to Do If Your People-Focused Job Completely Drains Your Social Battery

These little strategies can help you preserve some energy for your loved ones—and yourself.
How to Actually Maintain Close Friendships in Your 30s
Life

How to Actually Maintain Close Friendships in Your 30s

Because jobs, kids, and living in different cities can make it really, really hard.
3 Things to Say When a ‘Friend’ Puts You Down
Frenemy lines

3 Things to Say When a ‘Friend’ Puts You Down

If their snide little comments make you feel shitty, it’s okay to stand up for yourself.