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friendships

Asking for a Friend

My Friend Always Gets Free Stuff by Complaining to Managers—and It Gives Me the ‘Ick’

I feel bad for the servers…and even worse about our relationship.
Life

The ‘Contrarian Friend’ Is Real—and They’re Driving Everyone Crazy

When disagreeing with you becomes someone’s entire personality.
Life

5 Subtle Signs It’s Time to Break Up With a Friend, According to Experts

Here’s how to know when a “bestie” feels more like a burden than a blessing.
Asking for a Friend

My Best Friend Keeps Ditching Me for Guys. Should I Call Her Out?

When she’s single, I’m her person. When she’s not? It’s like I don’t exist.
Asking for a Friend

My Friend Cut Me Off. How Can I Get Them to Forgive Me?

I ruined a great friendship over jealousy…and I’ve regretted it ever since.
Life

5 Signs You’re in a Codependent Friendship, According to Experts

Because not all “closeness” is healthy.
Column

Need Friendship Advice? Welcome to SELF’s Asking for a Friend

Therapist Miriam Kirmayer is here to help you make sense of your messiest, most complicated friendship moments.
Entertainment

How to Survive Friend Group Drama—Without Picking Sides

This season of ‘The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives’ is a textbook example of how *not* to handle beef. Here’s what to do instead.
Life

6 Ways to Feel Better After Being Ghosted

Whether it was a promising potential partner or a so-called friend who pulled a disappearing act.
Life

5 Signs Your ‘Friend’ Is Secretly Competing With You

Watch out for someone who’s always turning the spotlight away from you…and back on themselves.
Life

4 Signs of Love Bombing in Friendships You Should Never Ignore

Moving too fast isn’t just a romantic red flag.
Entertainment

Can a Trio Friendship Ever Actually Work?

They make for some of the messiest dynamics according to social media—and on “The White Lotus” too.
Life

10 Tips for Navigating Friendship After a Baby

Whether you’re a new parent or supporting one, these simple moves can help you stay close.
Life

6 Things That Will Make Your Long-Distance Friendship Even Stronger

These small, intentional acts can make all the difference.
Relationships

10 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Deciding to Stay Just Friends With Your Ex

It’s not easy to go from romantic to platonic—but these prompts can help you figure out if it’s even possible.
Life

5 Signs You’ve Outgrown a Friendship

Your relationship has probably changed over the years, but has it truly run its course?
Life

How to Make Friends With Other Couples

You might have to look outside your social circle to find The Ones.
Life

5 Little Ways to Practice Setting Boundaries If You’re a Recovering People Pleaser

Standing up for yourself doesn’t have to be dramatic or confrontational.
Hater aid

How to Be a Little Less Judgy

You’re not a bad person if you have a lot of critical thoughts—but it’s still worth trying to keep your inner Regina George in check.